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Motherhood

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I ’ve been thinking a lot about motherhood.  This is not surprising, given that yesterday was Mother’s Day.  Mother’s Day, like most holidays, is meant to be a celebration, a chance for us to shower our mothers with love and spend precious time with our children.  But what about all those who can’t be with their mothers or children on Mother’s Day?  The last few years especially, those people have been on my mind the most.  A couple years ago, one of my best friends tragically lost her mom on Mother’s Day weekend.  It was the eve of a family wedding for me, so my mom was in town visiting from Florida.  She was asleep down the hall when I got a text from my friend telling me the news.  I remember waking my mom up that night and holding her tighter than I can ever remember, sobbing into her chest.  I cried for my friend who had lost her mom.  For her dad who had lost his partner.  For her daughter who had lost a grandmother.  I c...

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Perspective

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For years this idea has been in the back of my mind.  Sitting.  Waiting.  Building. Here we are in the midst of a global pandemic. All over the world we are experiencing something together, for the first time, and people are handling it very differently. I’ve listened to podcasts and read news articles and watched briefings. Out in the world, scary things are happening. And yet, here in my home, there is so much good. My babies are learning to play together for the first time. They are making each other giggle chasing each other around the house. They are sharing (mostly). The other day, Lucy crawled into Will’s arms and he wrapped them around her and sang. She was so still and content and it was perfect. We are all here. Always. And it’s amazing. There aren’t mornings where I wake the kids up alone anymore. There aren’t mornings where I FaceTime them from another part of the country. We all wake up together, in the same place, every single morning. Today we went on a wa...